與Son對話
與Son對話主要是張慧敏(Son姐)跟一班朋友真情對話,每次對話沒有主題、沒有時限、沒有預設問題。
與Son對話
(下集)黃麗裳與Son對話
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上集我們談了媒體人的硬底子,這集,我想帶大家走進 Louise 黃麗裳的「軟實力」。
很多人問我:「Son 姐,現在這環境,留下來還有意思嗎?」其實,我也常這樣問自己。Louise 給了我一個很溫暖的答案:「一個地方能留住你,是因為那裡有你重視的人。」這句話,瞬間擊中了我。
對於移民,Louise 坦率得可愛,她說自己早已習慣了香港的便利,那種樓下就有新鮮食材、出門就有冷氣吹的舒適,是她目前難以割捨的生活根基。從職場高壓的百人管理,到如今種菜、養狗、接案的自由步調,她笑談自己不是退休,而是換了個跑道,去追求那份「知足常樂」的心理平衡。
我們聊到了管理哲學,聊到了當記者被送貴重禮物時如何堅守底線,甚至聊到那本讓她獲益良多的書——《別讓每件事都令你有反應》。在節奏飛快的香港,我們太容易被外界擾動,導致失去了內心的定力。但 Louise 提醒我,安心不是因為財富,而是因為你有能力調適自己的內心。
這場對談,不只是關於「走或留」的選擇,更是一堂關於「人生轉場」的課。無論是正在職涯摸索的年輕人,還是準備進入人生下半場的過來人,或許你都能從 Louise 的隨遇而安中,找到一點安放自己的勇氣。
人生啊,真的不是規劃出來的,是在每一次的嘗試、跌倒與認錯中,慢慢活出來的。
這集留言區非常精彩,感謝大家分享高品質的觀點與互動,你們的素養,就是這頻道最珍貴的能量。聽完這集,也歡迎在留言區告訴我,對你而言,這個城市最讓你難以割捨的「留下來的理由」是什麼?
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